toughtimes, I would stick to the texting rules of LRT:

If she texts you a statement, do not respond. If she asks a a questions, answer in your own time (not right away) and with as few words as possible. Yes or no questions, get yes or no answers. This will save you a lot of headaches. She may get angry when you do not respond to her statements.....but then she is angry anyway!

As far as the emails settlement, do not respond until you have your lawyer look it over. Stick to your guns on the lawyers handling the details. This was her way of getting you to cave.

Did your marriage have a history of you cowtowing to her? If she didn't like something she threw a little fit and got her way? It sounds like she has been trained by you to use gaslighting, anger, and just generally acting like a spoiled brat to get her way.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018