I can't see how someone could fit into every day life with the young kids.
Well, remember even for someone dating "seriously" with marriage in mind like K, they've seen my kids exactly twice in the 6 months and my kids can't remember her name. It will be AT LEAST 1-2 years into dating before you have to start thinking about such questions. And before then your kids and her will have met and you'll have some idea how they might fit together.
All you need to figure out now is whether she fits into YOUR life.
