I'm Back after 1st DB (5)

[BL42]

I'm also suspicious she emailed me a sensible financial proposal to get us half way. Sell the house, split 40%, 20% goes to other financial commitments, we sort out final settlement later. I haven't floated this with L yet, but I like the idea of moving out quickly and having 75% of settlement cash. The reason I'm suspicious is this came after the comment about an L.

Review any proposal - suspicious or not - with your L. If you're comfortable with it and L thinks it's a good deal, take it. If L thinks it's a bad deal, dismiss it.

She smsed me that S8 was sick in the hotel and soiled the bed. I just responded that must have been hard. I get an angry reply that I don't want your sympathy, I'm just telling you.

Your response seems focused on her feelings instead of your son. Time to start thinking primarily as a father and not a husband. Instead of "that must have been hard [for STBXW]" perhaps "Poor guy. Hope S8 feels better tomorrow."