Originally Posted by DonH
I wish I could but I can’t - at least not when it comes to women.
What about these women make you feel they are low quality?
Originally Posted by DonH
On top of that my list of quality women who don’t at all care to date grows.
Why is this? I have an idea but like to hear your thoughts.
Originally Posted by DonH
One was a pretty successful model and is still very pretty.
Hmmmm.
Originally Posted by DonH
Another a financial broker.
Women typically (KML) only date man as successful or more successful them. Most really successful man tend to date multiple women or date younger. I am willing to bet she doesn't want to share a man or date a 60 year old man.
Originally Posted by DonH
Another owns her own small business.
See above
Originally Posted by DonH
The latest one I’m lucky if we get together once a month. Imagine that I actually want more interaction than she does!
Are you sleeping with this woman?
Originally Posted by DonH
I just seem to remember you talking about at least a few guys who really wanted to date you and you even said you can’t find anything wrong with them yet you had no interest.
I think you are on to something Don.
Originally Posted by DonH
Are you changing that story now? I swear there was a few but you could not bring yourself to give them the chance they appeared to deserve. Yet broken cowboy got a huge chance. I guess that’s what I’m seeing.
Seems like pysch 101.
Originally Posted by DonH
My renewed fav radio psychologist lost her husband a few years ago and says these exact things. She’s pickier than I am and doesn’t think she will ever find someone worthy. She’s mot given up but no longer tries. Maybe that’s the story with those dozens I know. It’s also why I’ve not gone on nearly the number of dates you have, mostly by choice. At least you’re still trying and rolling the dice.
It's a numbers game. As long as your ok alone you can't lose.
Originally Posted by DonH
I stand by that overall you handled this well. Certainly room for improvement but well. I wish I had better news. It’s not hopeless but it’s also a huge challenge. FWIW it didn’t get really bad until my early 50s. So by that calculation you’ve still got at least 8 decent years to go.

Don what changed when you got in your early 50s?