WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont12.)

[Ready2Change]

went to a steakhouse on my own, and I bought a second kayak.

Must be an amazing steak house if they sell kayaks....lol

But it is interesting how on the day to day I do have this desire to be with someone else.... but I am interested in the idea of having a companion. .... but I feel an odd urgency to get out and go do incredible things I haven't been able to do. ...

Just keep doing the things you enjoy...that is how you find the right lady for you...she will enjoy the same things and your paths will cross. Then you can enjoy an amazing journey together.

One issue I have to deal with in regards to my ex is that she seems to be getting some digs in related to me not spending money on the kids to the kids. My daughter kind of brought it up the other day. I send my ex a little over $3k per month for her and the kids and she has a good job on top of that. I think I'm going to sit the kids down this weekend to let them know that I pay child support as well as 70% of all their expenses. I didn't want to do that, but some things that are happening need to be explained..

Sounds familiar. I had to do that at one point as well. I was the one giving the kids allowances and telling them to save their money and spend it wisely. I always told them they were lucky that mom was overspending on them and they should appreciate it.