Need some advice. I'm tired of STBXW arguing over minute details of property settlement that she doesn't understand. I'm planning to send this:
STBXW,
These circular conversations on property settlement are unproductive. It's been almost a month with practically no resolution or agreement. I am not willing to have any more dialogue on points of Family Law as this is the domain of lawyers. I have no desire to engage any further in these types of conversations.
Percentages absolutely require a complete financial picture. As such, I will be hiring an accountant or lawyer or both to draft up a proforma settlement based on all the information you and I have provided. Any funds spent to prepare this document will be clearly labelled. In the absence of your clear direction, I will take a best effort approach to proposing how assets are to be allocated. I will then share with you the document when it is completed. At that point we can revise based on your input because we will then be having a proper and informed financial conversation. Eventually this needs to be done, so it is not wasted effort, the details can always be updated closer to final settlement. I expect this could take months to prepare given the complexity of transactions, the properties involved, and paperwork required.
