Setup another bed in the house and TELL HER to move into a different room, DONT ASK. “You’ve made it clear you aren’t in love with me, I respect that, you sleep in the study now.”
How you do this is very important. Most likely a good 180 for you. Every step is important. Let her be as emotional as she wants. You are the rock and can handle it. She could be angry. She could be happy.
Make your bedroom more manly is also a good idea.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
