Since we didn’t do the work last time I am back in the same spot again. Only this time I don’t want to save my marriage.
We see this often around here. Usually a recon is just a stay of execution because the real issues never get addressed and the LBS is always walking on egg shells waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Originally Posted by sls1860
What I am hoping to get is I would like to make sure my young daughter…age 11 comes out of this as whole as possible.
Lot will depend on how you and your STBXW handle it.
Originally Posted by sls1860
I know that her world just got rocked and I want to try and minimize the damage.
So you told her?
Originally Posted by sls1860
I am hoping a few vets that are down the road from where I am can give me some pointers and tips for that.
How are my kids doing now? Honestly they are doing GREAT! Do they like going back and forth between houses? No. Do they like that their family traditions, like vacations together and restaurant meals as a family have been disrupted? No. But they do feel loved by both of us, they know that we are there for them, they have each other, and that is more than enough. Believe me it is.
Originally Posted by sls1860
I will be ok…gotta learn how to be single and happy again but I am ok I just worry about my kiddo.
