Yes, I have a very clear focus on where I want to go, and what MR 3.0 looks like (yeah, this is my 2nd one that is breaking up. The 1st once was an immature starter, so it sort of doesn't count, it was more like a short BF/GF relationship). I actually wrote myself a letter to the future congratulating myself for pulling through and finding someone
As I explained in a different thread, I'm too hard on myself at times. The work I need to do on myself can be done through personal friendships. And I am doing that.