LH you asked a question about have I asked her why the lack of $ex. I have, she says she is not emotionally there. She feels like she is second and she doesn't trust me (the cop incident). When I ask how can I help you heal or help her get over it, she just says time. right now its been 2 months since the last time.
I am also starting to see a pattern that is happening more and more. The days I have my son she is depressed and just right down. When I ask her whats wrong, her response is you know, the usual. At first I would ask what does that mean? That this is her life and that she feels like her and the baby are second. She is not happy with this life and never imagined her life to be this way. She actually said to me yesterday That she is my woman and I should be putting her on a pedastil. She feels my son comes first. She constantly makes it like its my son and I against her and the baby. I am at a loss.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20