Pretty good. Gym, seeing friends, hanging with the kids, and even taking some online courses on surviving the D. Some nights I just retire to my room and read or play some video games. The only thing I haven't done is pick up my guitar, but with so many other distractions, I haven't really had the time. This Friday I'm off to a big sports game with a friend who has risen to be the most supportive and caring friend I've ever had. I wish I connected with him in this way years earlier.
Today I found a great L. Third time lucky. Supportive, empathetic to fathers, and reasonably priced. She mapped out a clear path for me, with answers for all the weasel financial things my STBXW wants to throw at me. I also got great advice for negotiating a parenting plan. We even discussed contingency options if STBXW becomes particularly stubborn, or if mediation fails.
I can see the anger reducing on the other side, and the emails are starting to be more productive. Whether that lasts or not, I don't care because I really feel I'm in a good place. With the legal and emotional support I have now, I feel I have a clear plan for my future.
