Wolfman,

Reading the summary of that incident was difficult. A lot of major red flags:

1) GF resenting your relationship with your daughter from ExW
2) GF threatening to move out and take the baby over it
3) GF acting hysterical & resorting to physical confrontations
4) You calling the cops on your GF with a newborn

Have things settled down on the home front since, any more incidents? You may want to record similar encounters in the future in case things escalate legally.

You're in a tough spot both with ExW and current GF, and kids with both. Not sure what advice to give other than get into IC and keep working on yourself to be the best father and partner you can be.

You probably don't want a second relationship with someone you have a kid with to fail, but there will come a point you have to end it if GF can't accept your relationship with your kids.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21