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[Wolfman]

Ok so here is the situation that hit our relationship hard. i apologize for it being long.

Last summer my gf and i were having a conversation about me going to court mandated therapy with my daughter. Just so everyone understands, i was only allowed to see my d at therapy for 1 hour a week. That was it, no calls, no texts no nothing.GF was getting angry that me going once a week was taking time away from her and my baby. She felt why am i putting in this time with someone who wants no part of me. That it wasn't fair to her and the baby when they are the ones who love me. I explained that, that's my d and i can't just give up on her. i had a good relationship with her and the x destroyed it. She also mentioned that it bothers her that a lot of times when i would come home from therapy with my d I would be sad and depressed. Side note, at those therapy sessions my d would bash me and make up lies how bad i was as a father. She said that wasnt fair to her and the baby either, that i would come home sad and depressed and that she didn't want to see anyone hurt me. She hated seeing me like that. I said i understand and i am sorry that i bring that home, but it's just hard for me. Well the conversation started to escalate and then she said that I don't care about her and the baby. I said I love you both but I also love my d. She said then that she was going to leave with the baby. When she said that the baby was on the floor and I was playing with him. So, I picked him up and walked into the kitchen. While I was in the kitchen I heard her packing clothes into a bag. So i figured she was just going to take off with the baby. I was not going to allow her to just leave with my child. i already lost one child. She came into the kitchen and said, give me the baby, I said he is just fine with me. She said it again louder. i told her her is going to stay in the home. She said he is her baby and she can take him. I said he is my child too and this is his home and he should stay in his home. Then she started to scream at me with the baby in my hands to give him to her. I said if you want to leave you can leave but the baby is staying. She then lunged at me to take the baby. i turned so she couldn't grab him. She then grabbed my arm really hard trying to turn me with him in my arms. I told her to stop because I could drop the baby. She tried again to reach around me to take him from me. i told her to stop that, that is dangerous. She then went back into the room to pack more things. i proceeded to walk into our bedroom and close the door and lock it. She came to the door and started to pound on the door, to give her the baby. I told her she needs to calm down she is acting irrational. She refused and continued to pound on the door. i again told her she needs to calm down, but she would stop. Since she would not calm down or stop, I called the cops. I did not know what else to do to get her to stop and calm down. Honestly i was afraid what she would do to me. When she heard me talking to the cops she started to scream more how could i call the cops on her. When the cops came i went outside to talk to them. Even in front of the cops she kept insisting I give her the baby. The cops had to calm her down, and they even said that she was acting up and that they didn't understand why I had to give the baby to her.

I gotta run i will finish soon. i get to those replys too later.