PeterB,

If you read the rest of the thread, there is some drama there, but I did bin it, and then as luck had it, she discovered as I was taking D1 out for a stroll. To clarify, it was touching in the sense that it was well written. But it's not that I felt moved, other than pissed off.

In any event, WW made a big deal in front of the kids that she's telling her entire family that we've separated. She's also back to her critique of any little thing that I do wrong, or whatever is wrong in her mind at that exact moment. I'm not reacting, but it's a good reminder of the toxicity of my M.

I had an awesome GAL with S8, 6 hour hike. I'm physically exhausted in a good way.

In a bad way, STBXW has reneged on her promise to attend my recommended settlement service. The one time where I think she actually compromised, she hasn't. It's frustrating, but it looks more and more like L will have to negotiate.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48