Her love language is time. At night she just wants to lay in bed together and watch tv. Which i do most nights. The one thing that is hard is for me to stay awake. Back in September i started a new routine. To go to the gym before work. So, I am up at 4:30 am and go to the gym for an hour, then go to work. So by 9pm, i am exhausted. Thats usually the time we have our down time, so a lot of times we will start watching tv and i will fall asleep, and she gets annoyed with me, that is supposed to be our quality time together.
Ok so what did you learn after your divorce? Apparently nothing. If you love someone you WANT to fulfill their needs without expectations. What are your priorities? Her or the gym? Why don't you try fulfilling her needs w/o falling asleep for six months and see what happens?
Originally Posted by Wolfman
Thats usually the time we have our down time, so a lot of times we will start watching tv and i will fall asleep, and she gets annoyed with me, that is supposed to be our quality time together.
That's because when you fall asleep she doesn't feel loved and valued.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
But its like she doesnt have to fill my love language.
Pretty sure this attitude got you divorced the first time.
