My WW almost encouraged me to sleep with someone else. This is the WW mindset. "If I can get them to sleep with someone else then that will a) free me from my guilt b) free me from my marital vows c) give me an excuse for what I am doing d) let me know that I am making the right choice."

There have been LBSs that have fallen for this ploy, and then are shocked when the WS starts telling people that they are leaving because the LBS cheated on them. Happens all the time.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018