My apologies, I have been very busy with work and things at home have been sort of the same. She has continued to try to fight, and she's been cooking up opportunities to be mean. If you recall, I had been planning a GAL adventure without involving her. She got wind of it (saw my screens) and asked me when I am going. I gave a vague answer and a two-week window (it was the truth as I hadn't got the tickets). She was fine and then after I made my tickets, she again asked me if I made the tickets and if yes, the exact dates. I said yes and told her the dates. Unexpectedly she started fighting, telling me that she has plans - that came out of the blue. I calmly told her that I'll find a solution, but I can't change my plans. I proposed a reasonable solution, but she continued to be angry. I had to be a bit involved in this particular discussion as my son's care has to be properly planned out during that time. But I stayed calm and firm. And eventually she moved on and appeared to have accepted it.
Next morning, she again got mean over something and started saying the usual things about me being fake at this time and untrustworthy. I was working while she was shouting so I told her I was busy at work, and she needs to leave the room immediately.
She also said she wants a break from sex as she needs space. I was fine with it but today I got the feeling that she is trying to turn me on. I did not bite. Not sure if she is testing me (although I don't know what the test case is or the motivation behind her test) or she if just wants me to make a move on her as she is feeling horny. Strange behavior, nevertheless. I am not sure how to handle this. And yeah, as expected she said she is okay with me having sex with someone else while on the break. She pressed me on it and finally I responded saying "I won't have sex with someone else" and then exited. Should I have responded? If yes, how?
She has been planning some family activities for evenings and weekends. I go along (reminder that we are actually living like a family, coparenting, share all the housework etc). Towards the end of one such activity, which went quite well especially between my son and me, she suddenly dropped an absurd revision of a particular time of our lives. I did not respond and did not validate. Overall, I am still validating and empathizing wherever applicable, but I am not inclined to do that under blatant revisions (that includes lies about my actions) and especially not when I am having a good time with my son.
