I'll accept the 2x4 to focus on me. Yes, my mind is orientated to the future and to get through this mess.
I had a great GAL out with an ex-coworker. His big D experience was helpful and uplifting and I got some good advice on the process, and post-D life. We'll be meeting up more regularly and we will even be looking at a future business venture once I know what my life will be like post-D. It felt good.
I have a weekend GAL out with a poker friend for dinner, drinks, and watching rugby. He is fun and supportive, and will take my mind off things. I personally don't drink heaps anymore, but will have one or two.
Otherwise, not much on the weekend for me, just playing with kids as much as I can.
The hard stuff is a chat with STBXW on how to tell the kids AND about mediation for finances. It will require a lot of resolve and focus to ensure I'm not trapped into an emotional argument.
Traveler, it's a special mediation service that guides us through the process in the right legal framework. It also includes independent legal advice on both side. It's also massively cheaper then negotiating with Ls. This is what I wanted because STBXW needs to understand what she wants is not what the courts would agree to. Of course, I could be wrong and she's partially right, but at least it will be validated.
I'm also continuing IC with a psychologist who also experienced D, so it's also fantastic emotional support for me.
