When I suggested one of her points required advice, she went off I had no right to get an L without her permission (even though I never used the L word). When I politely emailed it's not her concern, I'm free to get legal advice, and that if we don't use a guided property settlement service (which is a cheaper way to do it with legal advice), she realized it was the best option.
So, "Agree to a guided property settlement service or I'm calling a lawyer." It's great you're getting legal professionals involved. Is this in place of mediation? I agree with legal experts and without fighting you should both come out fine.
