Yeah that’s why I’m not a fan of validating WS. So they know you better than anyone in the world so when you change your responses it comes off as either manipulative or condescending. That’s why my advice is always to practice on everyone else until it becomes natural.
So now you’re engaging in arguments which is never good in general especially with a wayward.
I think you might be confused on the term cake eating.
TT I have to be honest this was a disappointing update. All your posts are about what she’s doing and little about what improvements/changes you are making.
