Quick question - why do you see (have partial custody of?) S12, but not D14? What's the background?
A quick recap of what may be painful for Wolfman to repeat--
Wolfman had a bitter divorce. D14 refused to visit Wolfman after a) expressing he was forcing his GF onto her and b) seeing her mom and Wolfman get into a physical altercation over a laptop. They now do handoffs at a police station.
Wolfman's custody was limited to therapy sessions. Wolfman feels his XW's anger towards him alienated D14, and points to D14 making a big deal about his GF, but not making a big deal about his XW's new BF. Also, anything he'd done that had physically scared D14, other family members had done worse and D14 wouldn't talk about those. He spent therapy trying to prove parental alienation. The therapy sessions ended without improving relations between Wolfman and D14.
He temporarily ran out of energy and $$$ to fight for D14 given the newborn.