Second her behavior is very childish and immature. I’m also going to speak with her father. But like I said earlier he is the only person she might listen to, besides hopefully the counselor.
What if you turned this around and focused on what you control--your behaviors? "Hey Dad, our relationship's gotten rocky lately. You've obviously been married for a long time and are clearly doing some things right. This is my second rodeo and I have blind spots. If there were 3 things I could do, to be a better husband, what would you suggest?"
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I have expressed to her my love language is touch, but all I get when I say anything which is rare, all I care about is $ex and that she is emotionally not there.
Did you clarify that TOUCH means handholding and not sex?
Wolf, it must be terrible feeling another situation slipping away. A year without sex is serious, but you are not to BD yet, and maybe the baby buys you some time. This is another chance to put validation into practice, make 180s to improve your relationship and find happily ever after while staying strong for your son and daughter.
