So STBXW found the card in the bin when taking some cardboard out.
This is exactly what you wanted, or more specifically created. If you didn't want her to find it, you could have shredded, burnt it, tossed it out when you were filling your car with gas.
We all make choices. Reflect on this and see if you could have made better choices. Same thing as things are unfolding in real time, stop and think about why you are behaving a certain way. Why are you doing a certain thing? IS there a better choice that will align with you current goals?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
