Whatever BS is coming through your phone is not important. You chose to interact with her. It is OK to wait and respond.
This. In fact, it is better to wait and respond.
Consider going to LRT tactics with the phone. If she calls, let it go to voicemail. If she texts, only respond to direct questions and then only in your own time. IE but right away (you're busy remember?) and then in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers. And its always give to deflect. ("I need to consider that before I give an answer.")
As R2C said, you chose to interact with her during the hockey game. She only has the power over you that your give her.
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