If yes, how should I broach the topic with her? Should I be verbose and explain to her I'd like her to confess? Any rules to follow while discussing such a precarious topic.
Actions speak loader than words. I would not talk to her about it. But if you must, get yourself in the right frame of mind.
Excellent post. I had read it earlier when you posted it on my thread and good to read it now again when it has become more relevant to my sitch.
This is golden: "You tell her trust is based on actions that are consistent. You don't trust her because she hasn't been consistent". This can be applied at any time or space. She got a restaurant dish for me but out of the blue attempted to belittle me a little later. Pretty darn inconsistent.
I am not going to talk to her about it for now. Will take it slowly. I thought this was urgent but now that I have thought over it, I feel it is not. I am planning up my next big GAL adventure as we speak .
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