"Write down how you propose splitting our assets, and I'll review it."
This is your NEW communication style.
Start saying less. Using the fewest words to get the point across has the strongest effect.
Yes. No. I will let you know when I have decided. I can see you are frustrated. I will need time to process what you have said. I am not sure right now. I have not thought about that. I believe it is best if .....
All these new skills will also be valuable when interacting with your children (and anyone else).
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712