Good just waiting to collect yourself before responding, but why do you feel the need to mention a L? Seems unnecessary.
Instead of: "Write down how to split our assets, and I'll discuss with a L." Why not: "Write down how you propose splitting our assets, and I'll review it." (then you consult with a L on your own)
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
