Also, re: the index cards - when I was feeling a little blue over being dumped by my first post-divorce boyfriend, I tucked an index card reminder onto the visor of my car that said "He's just not that into you". Worked great! (He and I have remained good friends. Just chatted with him last night. His childhood great love had found him on FB and they are still together so I have no ill will. Dang he was smart and handsome though. Sigh. )
