Originally Posted by toughtimes180
Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by toughtimes180
I'm totally upbeat today, and she's avoiding me like the plague.
Welcome to the wonderful world of IHS. The good news is years from now you won't even really remember it.
Something to look forward to! LH19, your advice and support is always gold.

Wedding Anniversary in a few days. I'm preparing to be reminded. Can't recall who suggested this, but my line will be: "Oh really, I hadn't really thought about it". And then walk away.

Don’t know where she is mentally but be prepared for her ACTUALLY forgetting about it.
Like LH said it’s in the delivery.
My XW basically forgot/neglected my birthday which was less than two months after we got married. Anniversary wasn’t mentioned at all by either one of us.

Last edited by Mumin; 05/11/22 03:35 PM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021