The lawyers were not directly involved in the mediation - just sounding boards for us in between sessions. Helps because they can let you know what’s a good deal and what isn’t.
that's how I used my lawyer also. Ultimately though you have to make decisions which are right for you and your family long term, regardless of what others, even professionals, may suggest.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
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