The question was out of curiosity, because it bothers me she was so quick to ask for me to look at the kids and gocon vacation. And it bothers me that it could have been the catalyst for BD. Yeah, bad idea to ask, it doesn't matter now. It would just make her feel guilty and more resentful to me.
But then I've thought about getting back in touch with an old flame who probably would be up for it. So I'll let it go.
Right now I have to focus on sorting out IHS parenting plan. Things are too loose atm.
