Originally Posted by toughtimes180
STBXW is asking again about going in vacation.
Can you explain this? She's asking about going on vacation with you, or getting you to watch the kids so she can go without you (and you expect meeting up with EA partner)? If it's the latter you're likely to feel like trying to block her from going away. But to our comments about control you're not going to be able to stop her forever. She will find a way. Sorry.

Originally Posted by toughtimes180
Not that it matters now, but should I ask how long the EA has been going on?
Don't ask. She's likely deny it, and even if she admits to it she'll lie about the extent of it.

Originally Posted by toughtimes180
I can't help but think it's been going on for a while now.
Almost certainly.

What do you know about it? Does it factor in legally or is Australia no fault?


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21