STBXW is asking again about going in vacation. Not that it matters now, but should I ask how long the EA has been going on? Or is it too late, and let it be. It could be a knee jerk reaction, post BD, but I can't help but think it's been going on for a while now.


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48