Just an echo here, from another horribly HDW who's bloodwork disproves common theory that testosterone must be off the charts.... Many times, it's been suggested my T must be high-- not just in regard to sex drive, but also based on being a pretty aggressive business woman. But the bloodwork shows normal.
In my M, I was monogomous-- but was well able to appreciate other men. Post D, I had to go through the thought process of whether I could be emotionally and sexually involved with more than once man, and I ended up deciding yes. The basis was that there is not a commitment involved. I'd be very slow to make a commitment but once I did, I would not cheat.
Since my partners have been very few, I wondered if this would turn out to be a problem for me-- but to my surprise and delight, it was just fine. Not sure it would still be okay for me, if the timeframes were more condensed-- I don't think I could avoid cold feet about having sex with more than one man the same day, that might be cross the line of my comfort zone....
But anyway, it's not just the testosterone. It might be a factor, but as I sit smiling quietly in a meeting, doing kegels almost to the point of no return-- all you see is a feminine looking person, making notes in her planner.
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