Originally Posted by Stella20
Kml,
That was my lawyer I emailed not H and my lawyers response, H has doesn't know what I am doing with the house. I think he is assuming I will stay here forever.

I do want to keep the house for now, I can not take anymore change right now. Can I delay the appraisal if I am staying in the house?? Or does it need to be done before the court date
And I assume the cost would be taken out of the 401k split
imho you have far too much personal info in that post. I'd ask the mods to edit or delete it, for your own sake.


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