dHi BL,
Meeting with my L on Thursday. I want to keep the house for now, who knows in a couple of years. I don't see the housing market crashing that hard anytime soon. And I don't think it is going to crash just level off.

As for assets, just the house, our 401ks, and 2 trucks. No debt. H has a sports collection valued at around 20grand. Most of our money is in 401ks. His income jumped up this last year, year and a half. I think that is really is problem the money went to his head.

He has said that he wants nothing from the house and what he is leaving is worth more than his collection, really what, my washer and dryer the pots and pans, the 8 year old furniture???? That stuff is all worthless and I am left to take care of all the junk that we have accumulated over the years. As far as I am concerned it can all go in the garbage...I don't want anything that he is leaving behind. Must be nice to just walk away from everything and leave me to deal with it. He can not even be bothered to deal with the D or get his junk out of the house. He has not soul..

Huh, super angry about his comment telling me he is still the same compassionate man he has always been..Wow thats funny, he has no idea what that word means

As long as we can lock in the alimony payments I should not have to worry about money. His half can come out of the 401k and I can invest money from alimony for the furture. Not like I am living like the Trumps..