Thanks Andrew, So do I use the apprasior my L suggested or just get a realtor that H agrees to? As I said, there has been nothing from him or his L since the temp order.
Your lawyer is the pro and has done all this before. I'm just a random guy from a different country with a different situation.
As others have mentioned, there are lots of ways to value assets including the house. When I went for a mortgage the bank was happy to use the number from the local property tax assessor for example.
I think I can safely say though that you cannot trust your H to act in your best interests or by the sounds of it to even act at all much less in a timely basis. And there's something to be said about lining up your ducks without poking the bear.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells