What you say may be right for the average case but this is clearly not a "typical" case since her exH slept with someone else the night before his wedding.
No I agree with the wedding night affair. I was talking more about his third affair when he left for good. I am sticking to my statements as I have done a lot of research on the subject.
Originally Posted by MLCxH
I also find that sometimes your message gets lost because the conversation devolves into an argument such as what happened with T and KML above. Perhaps you can recognize when this happens and employ your active listening and validation skills instead? You make a lot of good points and I would hate for your messages to be lost because of the delivery.
I agree. I have to do better on my delivery. I attend to attack when provoked or annoyed. Message accepted and understood. Bet my exw would back that statement lol.