Did you also notice the similarity that in both of these instances...multiple vets agreed with him and both of you disregarded/ defended against MOST of the feedback.
To me, disagreeing isn't an excuse to launch into personal, ad hominem attacks. I journal here to offer and receive support, to share and receive different perspectives. I prefer empathetic advice. I accept 2x4s. I muted LH when he referred to kml and my behavior as "borderline psychopathic." Past ICs have pointed out my tolerance for bad behavior is lower when other people are involved, that if I wouldn't accept a behavior towards a friend or my kids, I shouldn't accept it towards me.
