EO, I wanted to respond to your post on this thread, since Tim's got locked out. I did not take your post the way that Mojo did...I believe that I know what you are talking about but it is not how I experience it. Nevertheless I did not take offense to it.
I was, however, taken aback at your next paragraph about testosterone. I can tell you from experience that HD women do not have loads of testosterone coursing through their veins! It is definitely a part of the desire and arousal cycle but it is not the only thing. I get the feeling that you are picturing the HD women as a bunch of shemales, LOL. I do not have excessive body hair or a deep voice nor am I muscular in nature. I am very feminine in temperament and not really a tomboy type. In addition, I have had my hormone levels tested and they are fine.
I do experience desire and arousal like a man, though. I often feel horny and could have sex many many times per week. I can often be orgasm-oriented when having sex. It takes very little to get me aroused. Like Mojo, my arousal is directed and inspired by my husband and most of the time (like you) it comes from a completely nonsexual place. The way he smells, the way he sits (of all things!), the fact that he gives my kids a bath every single night...I could go on and on.
I suppose what I am saying is that it really can't be boiled down to hormones. I don't know the precise formula for every human being out there, lol, but I feel certain that testosterone is a smaller part of the picture than what is often presented. Otherwise how could you explain the fact that I, who have very little of it, am horny all the time and my husband who was deemed "Rambo" by our doctor and has tons of T, isn't?
