H (G) has always flipped and flopped about. He is much more a boomerang than vanisher for sure. So why bring her out, because her purpose isn’t being fulfilled. The reason she exists ain’t working out, so he ramps things up. He is running and he needs a better fix/jolt.
It’s still about him. Keeping her hidden away or flaunting her - all about him. No need to personally take on anything due to their actions and behaviours, for as it’s always been she is a symptom
As always your words give me great peace and comfort. Thanks for this.
Originally Posted by DnJ
Anything (if there is anything) going forward, reconciling to friends to acquaintances will be new. That was a hard lesson for me to figure out. And it brought such peace when I did
I'm sorry but I don't understand this very well. Can you explain what you mean with this?
Originally Posted by DnJ
I’m sorry this all stirred up on Mother’s Day.
Well, he is pretty good at destroying Mother's Day. Right after BD, in May 2019, I found the first conversations on his phone with OW1, chit-chatting about our children with her. A day which I will never forget for the rest of my life. The 2nd he was completely drunk, the 3rd year we had a good one as he wasn't living in the house anymore, the 4th being today.
