he felt she would not pay him back. How do you love someone in a middle age relationship without even this level of trust?
Returning to kml's query about ILU, love doesn't require blindly trusting someone to repay a loan. Trust is earned by past actions. I know parents who love their kids, but if they loaned them a large sum, wouldn't expect to see it again.
Hi CW, my point is exactly that. Trust is earned and since trust is the foundation of any good relationship, you may want to slow things down till your partner has earned your trust.
If she did not pay you back, you could have lost a lot of money because of trusted her blindly and agreed to go on an expensive trip. You had control and ability to say no more than just the dinner. It’s good learofor you since you may not be as luck next time.
