Thank you. Things have taken a 180 that's for sure. And I'm not sure if it can recover amicably. But that was going to happen later, if not now. I'm glad it's out in the open, she knows I'm not going to be pushed over. This morning total cold shoulder. No friendly talk, nothing but one question , "How do you feel about leaving me last night?" me: "nothing, it was your choice." she: "I thought so." Another bait, I know. It's so hard to DB in this state as she knows how to manipulate to make me look like the bad guy, and my natural state is to get defensive and push away. I'm not going to dwell on it any more, this is just her personality. Maybe things will calm over time, I don't know. For me, it's another example of no compromise, symbolic of our entire relationship. No more looking back at what I could have done, how it could have worked. Just about me and kids.
She left early in the morning for her parents with the kids. Today I get time to myself, and to do more clean up of the house. Tomorrow I have another IC session.