And if some dude is telling me he loves me a few weeks or a month in, I’m assuming he is trying to sweep me off my feet so yeah, I agree it is important to keep my wits about me and not ignore red flags.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids