Pin, I’m not misinterpreting what LH has said. He most definitely said that T should work it out with her, and has implied T and I are both shallow because we would break up with someone after saying ILU if we encountered a dealbreaker - yet everyone admits they have a dealbreaker somewhere where they would do the same.
Apparently I’m the defender of LH today and I don’t know why since he is perfectly capable of handling himself but NO….he is not saying y’all are shallow for breaking up after saying ILY and encountering a deal breaker. He’s pointing out that saying ILY has a deeper meaning to some while others toss it out like they’d say “you want fries with that?” He didn’t say you were shallow nor say anything about anything related to a deal breaker.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
