Thanks for the tips. I do meditate, which keeps me in check. In this case, it helps me to not raise my voice and to play the same emotional game. It doesn't help me, I find, to have constant emotional control. But it helps me to bd aware much quicker.
She doesn't make more money than me. What she was saying is that she brought more to the marriage in terms of property which was used to buy the family home. During our marriage, I funded every else. In Au, settlements are rarely 50/50 to reflect the contribution of housework. Just not to thd extent she thinks.