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I don’t equate a bad weekend and financial responsibility with finding out someone is a pedophile or an addict! Illegal and stinks at managing money are no where on the same level.

G, I wasn’t implying they were. I was pointing out it’s a spectrum and everyone has a dealbreaker somewhere along that continuum. And the point wasn’t just that she was bad at managing money, but that she spent irresponsibly buying new stuff she couldn’t afford and then expected her dad to bail her out. This speaks to her character. It’s completely different from you working two jobs trying to keep your head above water and having medical debt.