Thanks SteveLW and Kml, Really appreciate your concerns and yes, I am exercising caution to do with everything he does. H at the moment has been helping with caring for son, and I don't doubt he will at least try to be there for his son and the baby. It's just him (the a**hole who has been hiding his affair for 2 years and left me twice, including once when I'm pregnant) around me that's my issue. The problem is at least for the time being I am still partially reliant on H financially, especially for the rent, and H can't afford to get a different place while still paying for our place. If I wasn't dependent on him for housing, I would have definitely not let him in. We talked about the situation and my preference for him to be away. Both H and I are looking if any of our friends have any spare room or extra place where H could stay in cheaper. I know some of them live nearby, so it will still be close enough if H needs to help out with son and baby.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
The lengths that WSs will go to cover their tracks is extraordinary. No bridge is too far as long as they think it will help with their subterfuge.
Thanks Steve for sharing this experience. I am not sure how to do this when H is hardly on his laptop and mostly on the phone. H has committed to do the 'letter' via email, but I will only believe him when that actually happens.
Originally Posted by kml
Also, the more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable about you letting the snake back into the house.
I don't have any real choice at the moment and cannot afford another stress. Whatever state H might be in, I still need him (for the moment anyway) to cover the rent. I'm hoping that we will hear from my friends if H can stay with them for cheaper.
