I didn't mean to have dinner, it just happened since we realised there was extra time before the school function. At least we had a meaningful chat about parenting. And again, 30 minutes prior, the conversation on duplex came up. I said I couldn't afford it, and that was that.

I agree, that's it, I again slid against my agreement for email only. I learnt my lesson. If she gets an L or not, I believe it is required to make any agreement binding. I fell for the emotion, yet again.

The mood was so cold, I said I'm not attending the school function. I dropped her off and went home. She'll have to uber herself.

I'll let her cool down from that. She promised me the detailed numbers I asked for. I have half a mind to do it for her, to start the conversation, but atm this doesn't sound like a good idea.

From a DB POV, I've been nothing but happy all day, and never raised my voice at all in the evening. Except for the L comment, nothing else said was anything other than factual and what I want.

Last edited by Josh_T; 05/07/22 12:23 PM.

Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48