Peter,

Very predictable indeed. I just want to caution you on a couple things. You are most likely not plan B. This is an assumption that gets thrown around here a lot that IMO is not correct. You are a plan but it’s more like F or G. ILYBINILWY means she loves you like she would live a helpless child. In essence she sees you as a low value man because she doesn’t trust you. This can change but not likely without time and space and life experiences.

As for still having sex, my exw was like that, she’s the answer to the trivia question of “who’s the first woman you slept with after you were divorced?” It just means in her eyes you are an attractive dude and she’s more broken then you think.

BTW I think you are doing great DBing. The problem is the ice berg has been spotted too late and avoiding the iceberg is highly unlikely because there’s not enough time to alter the ships trajectory.